Stealth Styling was featured in SouthWest Flair Magazine – Image Stylist Helps Men Get More Action.

Cyber-Styling: A 21st Century Style Solution for Today’s Man. Successful, busy men all over the world now have access to first-class image styling services, thanks to Lisa Ann Martin, owner of Stealth Styling for men. With her ingenious use of a web cam, Martin has perfected a new niche within the image consulting industry: “cyber-styling”.

Check out the entire article Image Stylist Helps Men Get More Action in Southwest Flair’s Online Magazine.

Check out the latest story – Stealth Styling featured on Good Morning Arizona – 3TV.  Check out Scott Pasmore segment “Cyber Stylist” - Online Virtual Styling.

More and more people are using the latest technology for something we’ve been doing forever — dating. There’s no doubt the dating world can be pretty tough, and, let’s face it, men  normally doing the asking and the planning. What if  you could get a little help without ever leaving your home.

Click on the video to watch segment on AZFamily.com

What you’ll win:

A 1 hour long one-on-one customized image consultation session with me, Lisa Ann Martin – owner of Stealth Styling.  In this session I will identify three of your biggest wardrobe struggles and provide personalized strategies for solving those concerns, making your life simpler.
Whether you are attending an important business meeting, a special event or a first date; it is important to look at ease, while making the right impression. Let me assist you with analyzing your wardrobe needs, maximizing your best physical qualities and explaining what works for you and why it works.

Stealth Styling clients get more action in the boardroom and the bedroom.

How to Win:

Write one paragraph about your biggest wardrobe challenge and post it to your Blog or Facebook with a link back to my Blog: www.EssentialGuy.com. Then email Lisa@StealthStyling.com with your entry, or just email your entry to Lisa@StealthStyling.com.

Contest Rules:

Five winners will be chosen at random on November 6, 2009. You’ll be contacted by me to schedule our session right away.

Good Luck!

Check out this month’s Perfectify magazine discussing the 10 essentials for the stylish man’s wardrobe. I am excited to be the men’s fashion expert featured in the article.   Good News!!! Starting next month I will be the exclusive men’s columnist for Perfectify.  Tune in every month to read about the latest trends and the current must have items for men.

Here is a list of the 10 essentials:

1. Overcoat
2. Grey trousers/khaki pants
3. A pair of dark denim jeans
4. White button-down dress shirt
5. Quality black leather shoes and matching belt
6. A classic well fitting suit in navy, black or grey
7. V-neck sweater
8. A solid colored tie
9. A sport coat
10. Classic polo shirt/t-shirt

You can read the article by visiting Perfectify’s online magazine on page 44.

What are your “must have” men’s fashion items? Share with the group!

I am happy to report that Stealth Styling was featured in Sharp-The top Canadian men’s magazine for our Style cam service. Here is a small exerpt from the article:

The widower had a problem. After his wife had died, he was looking to get back into the dating game. The only problem was that he hadn’t done it in a while, and he wasn’t sure what to wear, or how to act.

Martin, of stealthstyling.com, has been style consulting for years, usually with snowbirds coming to her hometown of Scottsdale, Arizona. At the same time, she was starting to use Skype, the free Internet phone service. So, in a flash of inspiration, she combined the two to become a new kind of style consultant. Where once she was mostly restricted to her hometown, her services are available to men seeking help all over the world.

The entire article on style advice via webcam can be found at the Sharp website.

As always, if you need help with your look–please connect!

While the retail industry in general has seen a decline in sales over the past year, one particular format, online sample sale sites are doing relatively well in this recessionary climate, as shopaholic women and men with a taste for designer items are drawn to this online guilty pleasure.

The deep discounts on designer fashions and accessories, the aura of exclusivity and the convenience of online shopping appeals to both men and women, who are signing up by the millions to join these cool websites. They have become the “club” to which every person wants to belong.

The bargains are hidden from the public eye; only members can view them — although becoming a member is usually not difficult.  It varies from invitation only sites to ones which accept anyone who registers. The sales are up for short periods of time and qualities are limited.  Returns and exchanges tend to be restricted. Discounts can run as high as 80 percent off.

With all of these “exclusive” online sales, now it’s even easier to recession proof your men’s wardrobe without having to skimp on style.  Most sample sales sites offer women’s designer clothes and accessories, however there are now a few top sites which have gotten into the men’s market.

Here are my top eight websites for men where membership definitely has its privileges:

1. Gilt Groupe created in 2007, savings up to 70% off, runs 36-hour sales on Men’s, Women’s, and Children’s fashion, and other high-end goods. A partnership with the Council of Fashion Designers of America (CFDA) secures their merchandise supply chain directly from the designer, therefore your orders ship almost immediately. Opt for low-cost shipping ($4.95) Added bonuses include a free wait list on items that sell out. Membership to Gilt is by invitation only.  Join Gilt Groupe with this invitation link: http://www.giltgroupe.com/invite/lisa103
2. Rue La La, created in 2008, hosts 2-day designer brand boutiques, with savings up to 30-80% off retail. Membership is also by invitation only, but you can also put your name on the waiting list.  Join Rue LA LA with this invitation code:  This Company has also revolutionized ecommerce with the introduction of the first mobile website for private sale shopping.  The launch of m.ruelala.com takes the convenience of online shopping to an entirely new level by allowing consumers to shop private sales from the convenience of their iPhones.  Join RueLaLa with this invitation link:  http://www.ruelala.com/invite/lmartin377
3. Haute Look, launched in December 2007, organizes exclusive 12-48 hour online private sales  and has quickly become a must-shop destination with its varied selection of both indie designers and high-end brands, as well as the up to 75% off savings. Membership is free and prior to each sale, members are sent an email notice announcing the brand and start date/time of the sale.  Join HauteLook with this invitation link: http://www.hautelook.com/invite/8922
4. Ideeli, one of the first invitation-only shopping communities, offers daily sales events, with prices up to 80% off retail. This site features mostly men’s accessories, and occasionally includes men’s resources. For $7.99 per month, you can become a 1st Row Member and shop the site an hour earlier than 2nd Row Members, and will also receive mobile alerts (depending on your carrier). Join Ideeli with this invitation link: www.ideeli.com/invite/lisa9

Four other websites, which are smaller and contain limited and/or offer unique selections, are Beyond The Rack , The Top Secret, Jackthreads – “invite only”site for street/skate community, and for guys in NY area – TheChoosybeggar.

Merchandise moves quickly on these websites, so if something catches your eye, make sure to snap it up before it’s gone!

Do you have a favorite men’s private sample sale site not mentioned here? Share it with StealthStyling by posting a comment below.

Maintenance if not a very sexy topic, but restocking your wardrobe frequently is expensive and avoidable if you actually take the time to care for your pieces correctly. It’s no secret that the economy is still hurting, and it is taking a toll on all of our clothing budgets. What it shouldn’t take a toll on is how you “care” for your garments. Be smart and save your extra funds to add new sharp looking seasonal pieces to your wardrobe instead!

So here are a few basic clothing care tips:

• Rotate all of the pieces in your wardrobe on a regular basis. Give your clothes time to breathe. By doing so it will prevent odors from becoming absorbed and creases from taking shape.
• Suits should rest at least one day before being worn again.
• A little trick for a quick, easy steam of your suit is hanging it outside your shower. This will save you trips to the dry cleaners.
• You should always hang up or fold your clothing every time you take them off. If you leave clothing lying around it will create unwanted creases.
• Brush your clothing – dust can deteriorate your garments.
• “Always” read the clothing care tags. Never wash anything at a higher temperature than stated on the label.
• Dry clean clothes in moderation. The high temperatures and chemicals used directly damage clothing and slowly over time decreases it lifespan.
• It’s always best to launder your shirts at home and then take them to the dry cleaners for pressing.  Dry cleaners will wear your shirts out fast, particularly under the arms since the deodorant are be not being removed during the dry clean process.
• Wash your clothing – use a liquid detergent to prevent deposits on your clothes.  In order to help elevate fading, turn your clothes inside out before washing. And hand-wash any delicates to avoid damage.
• Before ironing, make sure your garments are in tiptop shape. If there is stain on your “dirty” shirt, you could permanently set it into the clothing.
• Always blot, don’t rub stains. Rubbing damages the clothing’s fibers, will remove die color ad can even spread the stain making it worse. Club soda is a quick fix for almost any stain.

Well-dressed, intelligent men know that a good deal on clothing doesn’t end at the store. If you really want to get the most bang for your buck, ensure your pieces last a long time by properly caring for them with some of my Stealth Styling tips.

If you need further guidance, please don’t hesitate to contact me directly via phone 480-773-2677 or email / Lisa@StealthStyling.com.

Every man should know how to conduct himself in any setting, whether it be social, work, or at home. Being a gentleman today is not about dos and don’ts, but about common sense, courtesy and respect of others.  Knowing the basics of good manners will take you far.

Work Place – be professional.

Being well-mannered in a work setting means being approachable, open to constructive criticism, speaking expressively with tact, and particularly be positive and encouraging to others. Some fundamental good manners will go a long way in helping you during your rise to the top.

Chivalry – be a man.

Chivalry is free and it gets the girl. A woman still appreciates a man who takes the time to hold a door open for them. Remember to be presentable and well-groomed when taking a woman on a date.  Knowing what to wear and when to wear it is important if you want to save your reputation.

Whenever dining out, be sure to allow your female companion to be seated first. For those of you who dare to be really chivalrous — it is common practice to stand when a woman gets up to leave the table.

In conversation, simply be yourself and be involved – ask about your date and follow up on their responses. Women detest men who brag or have huge egos and will quickly become bored when it becomes clear you are not particularly interested in them, or if you are interested, it is just not in their “personality”.

Respect – be considerate.

Etiquette and mannerisms are simply learned behaviors and you will have the greatest successes in life by thinking positively and being proactive – rather than thinking negatively and being reactive. A chivalrous gentleman should always think about how his tone and his attitude might be taken, and whether or not it reflects his intentions.  By implementing a courteous, respectful attitude and speaking thoughtfully – you will achieve a greater degree of respect from your family, friends, co-workers, partners as well as lovers.

So if you following these basic guidelines, rest assured people will perceive you as a man of good breeding, class and taste, and one they wish to socialize and conduct business with today. Not to mention the fact that the women are always elated to meet a “real” gentleman.

Men today are starting to realize the importance of proper grooming.  A healthy appearance reveals to others, whether you are attending an important business meeting, a special event or a first date, that you are “the man”, and have it all together.  Believe me when I say women notice and will reward you for your efforts.


Generally men have a very basic everyday regime of brushing your teeth, showering, and washing your face. However, there are few other essential grooming guidelines every man should follow:

• Keep your fingernails and toenails trimmed and clean.
• Trim your nose hairs.
• Don’t be hesitant to trim or pluck any stray eyebrow hairs.
• Good dental hygiene means a dazzling, bright smile.
• Brush your tongue when you brush your teeth. It attracts bacteria and can cause bad breath.
• Men need moisturizers and sunscreen just as much as the opposite sex. If you don’t have a skin care regimen, start immediately.
• Use lip balm outdoors to prevent chapped lips.

Essential man’s wardrobe…

When it comes to building a functional wardrobe, the first thing every man should do is assess their lifestyle. No matter what the particular situation, whether it is casual or professional, there are pieces every man should have in his wardrobe in order to look sharp and well dressed. With these basic elements in place, most men can be ready to respond to whatever situation presents itself and feel totally prepared.

Many clients ask me what they need and usually the answer is they don’t need anything, however they generally do not have the correct clothing items for their lifestyle needs; most having a cluttered closet full of ill-fitting, possibly outdated duds and stacks of shoes which are not fit to wear.  So the key is creating a portfolio of appropriate, quality items which fit their way of life.

I believe there are ten closet essentials which are the backbone of a stylish man’s wardrobe. They can be worn almost year round and don’t follow any particular fashion trends. Most likely you already have most if not all these wardrobe basics, but regardless of your age, income, profession or personal style, your closet should always contain these classic pieces:

• Overcoat
• Grey Trousers/Khaki Pants
• A pair of Dark Denim
• White button-down dress shirt.
• Quality leather Black shoes & matching belt.
• A classic well-fitting Suit in a dark navy, black or gray.
• V-neck sweater
• A solid-colored tie.
• Sports coat
• Classic Polo Shirt/T-shirt

In regards to the essentials, always purchase the highest quality possible. Quality pieces will have the best fit and believe it or not, value. Think of your wardrobe as an important investment that you cannot afford to pass on. It’s always better to be the best-dressed man in the room. The essential wardrobe, worn proudly, establishes the fact that you are a man of style, purpose, and power.

Life is demanding for men these days – having extremely busy schedules, juggling work, relationships, and a social life all in a day which is never long enough. It definitely helps having an image consultant, saving you valuable time, who would take you step by step through a process of discovering your personal style and dressing you according to it. However, not everyone is emotionally or financially ready for this kind of experience; therefore my last piece of advice is to start simple and expand according to your lifestyle and body type. More on Men’s style advice…